I was going away for 5 days on a trip I already had booked & I even made a joke that I hoped he wouldn't get snapped up while I was away. He didn't ask me who I was going with and I didn't mention it was just a female friend. He actually asked if I would like to go with him to portugal a few weeks later. I thought it was abit soon so left it open ended but he was quite insistent especially at the end of the second date.
I got back from my trip & he texted to say he wanted to see all my pix, he had a big project at work but would hopefully be finished by the weekend & he was really looking forward to seeing me. I said I was too and to keep me posted. Well that was 6 days ago & I heard nothing from him even though I send a sweet/flirty text a few days ago. Last night Ihappened to look at his Facebook profile and it says 'In a Relationship' I noticed he had befriended a woman 3 days before that. This is a man who never goes on FB from what I can see of his timeline, 1 post in 2 years. Him & I didn't even talk about FB or befriend eachother I just happen to know his last name so I looked him up. The woman he's supposedly having a relationship with was claiming to be single just a few weeks ago according to her timeline. Why would a man write 'In a Relationship' with a woman he barely knows not to mention the disappointment I feel since I had hopes to continue seeing him....Is he just extremely needy or what? I suppose she jumped straight into bed with him which I didn't. I just give up, this online dating just do