Everyone tells me that, in order to succeed in the dating game, all you need is confidence. And yeah, there are a plethora of examples of idiots getting away with just being confident, but why? Why do you girls fall for confidence so easily, even if it's fake? Yes, I know, it's in your instincts, but why are you so shallow, to the point that you ignore the guy's personality completely? Wouldn't this make you more instinct-driven and way less rational? Sure, we are animals, but we are rational ones, we know how to separate emotion from reason...
Most Helpful Girl
1) There's a difference between confidence and arrogance.
Confidence is sexy. A man who knows who he is, who is insecure about some things yet still tries to overcome it, stands strong in his beliefs... that's beautiful to me.
There are some guys that fake this, but they can't keep the facade up for long. And faking it will actually put you into WORSE waters than the arrogant douche in my opinion.
2) Common sense. Please use it. Not all women ignore the guy's personality. Confidence IS PART OF a man's personality unless if he's faking.
3) We like what we like. Why shouldn't we go after it? If there is a fat grotesque hunchback that will give me a wonderfully lavish life with a great personality and an attractive man with that personality who will give me a life that makes us both work hard and we'd be happy, I'm going with the sexy dude.
I don't care about a man's money (he should have a job, his own place, and a car). I care about looks and personality. I think many RATIONAL people can agree with this. Some people don't care for looks and that's rational as well. We're not all cut from the same cloth.1
Most Helpful Guy
Be BOLD and SHAME-less and watch how everything changes for ya ^_^. When coupled with what @chuppachup said you're going to be A-okay i1127.photobucket.com/.../ezgif.com-add-text_5.gif0