Most Helpful Girl
Of course you can but it'd be a bit hard. Insecure people usually fear rejection so much that they can't make a significant move. I'm attracted to a guy who's also insecure and he doesn't approach me, ever. I know he's into me and he knows I'm into him but still, he never talks to me first. It's annoying when you always have to be the one initiating things.
Most Helpful Guy
you have only two options. 1. the more successful one pretend it doesn't even bother you women hate men without any confidence and confuse any weakness for lack of confidence or strength.
2. be completely honest but in this day and age... good luck.