This guy called his self playing me tonight by acting like he didn't know who I was and who I was looking for when I text him. Even though weve been talking for a while now and I mentioned his name when I text him, then when I text him back telling him who I was he never responded. My initial thought was to just leave it alone and not say anything, but then I thought fuck that. This guy begged to come back into MY life after I moved on, I let him and he continued to make NO EFFORT to show interest. So I texted him telling him he's a coward and childish to be in his 30's and needs to grow the fuck up. I told him it was his lost not mine. Why is it that most people would advise us women to just "let it go* and not say anything backback?
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Because you're stroking his ego when u do that. Some guys love knowing that they can get a girl all in her feelings like that. Dont give him that. Guys HATE when u ignore them. Thats a more powerful move. But... because I am a girl I do get what u mean when u say that girls are basically suppose to play it cool when they get mistreated or else she's "batshit crazy" or play it cool even though she's starting to like a guy or else she's "clingy". Unfortunately it's just the way it is. Play your cards right. Dont let him see you sweat. Move on to bigger & better.0