A few weeks ago, I was waiting in a line and the person behind me kept "accidentally" ramming me in the legs with a stroller. After putting up with it for a few minutes, I turned around to ask the person to kindly stop and realized it was a white man with an Asian wife. The guy feigned an apology while his wife smirked.
Just a week or two ago, a white guy passed by me while I was sitting at a cafe, eating, and out of the blue, he looked down at me with a smug look of contempt. A couple minutes later, he reappeared with an Asian girl clinging to his arm and they sat down together.
Aaand around New Year's Eve, I watched a white boy and an Asian girl who looked to be about 5-8 years old, holding hands and eating ice cream cones. May as well get started early, I guess.
Most Helpful Girl
I live in Vancouver too. I had many Asian friends throughout the years and some had confessed they find white guys more attractive and would not consider an Asian or really any other non white race. I was shocked but pretty much every Asian friend I kept in touch with ended up with a white guy.
But I think some guys only want Asian girls too, so they find each other I guess. I remember when I had someone want to set me up with this guy (he was white, and I am white) he said no as soon as he found out I was white. His words 'I don't want someone who glows in the dark'.
Most Helpful Guy
Well, I'm neither Asian nor White. I am Hispanic. The only reason I mention this is b/c I feel like I can relate to both sides. But first, have you perhaps experienced explicit contempt from a W/A couple before? If so, maybe that stayed with you, and now you see this everywhere. Or perhaps you're projecting a fear, into reality.
Now for the personal part. I get jealous sometimes. I'm attracted to Asian women, and whenever I see one with a boyfriend, I'm like: "If only I looked more Asian, maybe they'd be into me" (perhaps even White). So I secretly have a biased agaisnt Asian males; until I get to know them that is. In fact two of my best friends are Asian males. So maybe those white guys may see you as a threat to their manhood lol (feel proud).
But that pales in comparison, when I see a a White guy with an Asian female. I just heat up! Why? I don't know, I've heard of yellow fever and the Western man going for the "exotic," Oriental woman. A submissive woman at that (I know it's not true, but that's the stereotype). And I'm like, if you approach a woman w/ that mind, you don't deserve her.
So yeah, that's my rant. To be honest though, I'm happy that there are people that keep it within their own culture. After all, that's what keeps your women's beauty.