- Guy 1
- Guy 2
Most Helpful Guy
I didn't read what you posted. Because it really doesn't matter. If you look deep inside your gut is going to tell you which one you want to try and have a relationship with. You need to go with that one. I have learned to always trust my gut in everything EXCEPT for investing. I have lost money on every single investment I have ever done lol *sigh...
For instance. after my divorce 15 months ago I tried to date for 2 months. I went through a lot of women but never felt anything for any of them. I did learn a lot about the dating process. Something I never did much of when I was young. I stopped because I knew I wasn't ready. I tried again in August, I was closer but the woman wasn't right. when I finally knew I was ready in November I still waited til December.
I sent out emails on POF and started chatting with 2 women. I had such a strong feeling about one of them. I held off meeting the 2nd one because I wont' date 2 people at once. But unfortunately we could never find a day to meet and I stopped hearing from that first woman. I started dating the 2nd in January. I tried to break up with that one after the first week and 2nd week but she talked me out of it. Then I thought maybe it was me. All these women and , even though I had sex with several, just never connected. Then out of the blue I got a text from the 1st one from December. We just chatted 2 nights in a row. seemed like she was lonely and feeling down. but she asked if I had any questions for her and I said "no, i asked you out, you decided not to go out with me. I will chat with you but don't need to know anything". then I didn't hear from her again. but I couldn't stop thinking about her. about a week later I finally broke up with the January woman. That was a relief. Since I had nothing to loose about 2hrs later I texted that one from Dec. We had a date 2 days later. I am madly in love with her. after our 2nd date I told my sister that if she doesn't dump me, I will marry this girl.
Most Helpful Girl
I didn't read either but guess go with the second guy because if you liked the first guy you wouldn't have to choose