I met a guy on OkCupid and we've been going out quite a bit for about a month. I disabled my account within a week of meeting up with him, not because I think you HAVE to, but just 'cause there's really no point for me anymore. I just un-disabled it though, and it says my guy was logged on just a few hours ago. So I'm just wondering, when would you guys usually disable your profiles?
ps, no we haven't talked about being exclusive or anything yet. So I'm thinking that he'll disable it after we have that conversation, right? Thank you guys in advance! :)
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First of yes, no guy is going to take himself off the market until he is sure you want the same thing he does. Whether its ltr or friends with benefits , which it might be that he thinks he is in. A month is more than enough time to ask him (especially if you have had sex).
As for you initiating just tell him how amazing it is being with him, how great he is (butter him up a bit), and just say I want to be exclusive with just you.
As for me personally, I was cheated on once and the BS excuse she gave was that we never "officially" said we were exclusive. So I usually do that rather early on like after the 3rd date.0