I have seizures. Grand mall and child hood absent sezuires I'm on meds for it but the strobe lights there scare me and I'm afraid if I go to a dance it might trigger them. When my boyfriend and I started dating he asked me: "do you go to dances"? The first day we started dating and I got really nervous and replied: "yes sometimes" but I didn't feel like then was the right time to tell him the truth. It's really stressing me out. And we've only been dating for almost a month (12th will be our 1 month) do you think it's to soon to tell him? We have school dances every month and I don't know what I'm gonna do if he asks me to go. How should I tell him I can't go because of my sezuires without scaring him off?
Most Helpful Guy
Just tell him the truth. Just say you should have told him in the beginning but were nervous and didn't. Tell him why. If he is a nice guy he will be ok with it.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
just tell him. its for your safety yor health and safety comes first0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE