This is just something that makes me a little sad so I was hoping to get some input. We spend lots of time together and he says he loves being with me. He's also the quiet type so we don't chat lots but that's ok - comfortable companionship I guess. The thing is that he plays online video games regularly i.e. Those multi player games you play with random people over the internet. THEN he's very animated and talkative with his online buddies - talks about movies, tv shows, fishing whatever.
I guess my question is whether this means he's bored when with me? I've asked him before and he says no but he seems like it. Why is he so chatty with his buddies but barely has anything to say to me? I can happily chat about movies or shows or anything but he doesn't really get into that with me as enthusiastically as he does with his friends. And yes I know guys act differently with their buddies then they do with their girlfriends but it just makes me sad when I hear him having so much fun with other people vs how he is with me.
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Do you have any shared interests? It sounds to me like he has those with his buddies (and also that he's known them a long time) so he loves talking to them about it, but there are no topics you yet share that he can talk to like that with yet.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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