I got there with a friend because I knew if I saw somwthing I would lose it and I'm not trying to get arrested. I pulled her aside asked her she showed me the her recent calls she got nothing.. she just sent me a message through snapchat like 10 minutes before that saying come already I'm bored. I didn't get it didn't have wifi or data at the time. She got offended but assured me that night I would never betray her. Till this day I don't know if she was testing to see if I even cared about her. Little head games. Could of deleted those calls. But was this irrational for me responding like this? I just got in the heat of the moment of me being cheated on in the past and I even explained all this to her.
- She did that on purpose.. you're fine.
- I acted completely insecure
Most Helpful Girl
First someone's past doesn't define who they are! That is her past so you should leave it there. Second yes I believe you acted irrational. You had no proof, you just assumed and lashed out
Most Helpful Guy
Actually you should never just assume and accuse anyone if cheating when you don't have any proof... that will always make you a bad person.
So ya know have been cheated on before but that does not mean she would do it too...
So have you broken up? Why?