I personally would NEVER date someone with a child/children because for one I don't like kids therefore I don't want any and 2, I wanna come first in the relationship and many other reasons. But do you find that hypocritical or not? Share your onions.
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I think whatever combination works for the parties involved is great. What I don't agree with is making a life choice and having a preference, then looking down on people because one thinks he or she is entitled to not have to experience the consequences.
I actually mean that both ways. As a single guy who has zero interest in being with a woman who has children by another man, I don't think it's fair for me to then bitch that I have almost no options within a reasonable age range of me. Likewise, I don't think it's fair for single mothers to say "Man up, Bronto, you selfish ass. Real men raise other men's children!" because they think they should have access to what I have to offer.
So yeah, I agree with you insofar as people insist a potential partner meets their expectations, while also insisting that that partner have no expectations of them. That is hypocritical.