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Well, this guy is obviously very confused about what he wants in life right now, what he wants with YOU right now. I think that maybe you should bring this to his attention and ask him what's going on. Since you asked this question it seems to me like you might feel some type of way that maybe you're not admitting to yourself... Do you want to be with him or are you open to the idea? Maybe he's afraid to commit to more with you because he doesn't know exactly how you feel on the matter.
I, personally, am not a fan of long distance relationships. I've been in two already and it's really hard to keep up with. Of course if I'm with the right person and I care about them too much to just let them go, I will give it a go. I'm not looking for a relationship right now, but if I found myself in that kind of situation I'd definitely go for it.
Some guys use distance as a cop-out, but some guys are genuine about it. Not everyone is equipped to handle the distance and despite him wanting to be with you, he just can't handle all that comes with a LDR. It very well may not be about him making excuses, but instead not being able to handle it. He probably does have some real and maybe strong feelings for you especially if he keeps reiterating the fact that a relationship is out of the question.1
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