Most Helpful Girl
Closed mouths don't get fed.
If you aren't willing to talk to him then you're equally at fault for not making what you want known. It isn't his sole responsibility to talk to you. Mind you, he should gut up and talk to you, but he could genuinely have concerns that are preventing him. Bringing it up to him isn't giving him anything "easy", it's being understanding enough to understand that he might be in a difficult emotional situation and is too afraid to fess up and explain things to you.
Ultimately one of you has to give, and if you aren't willing to you kind of lose the ability to be upset because you never made the same effort that you're expecting from him. Sorry, just how I feel about it.