I say this trying my very best not to come across as either conceited or pretentious. However, the vast majority of women I have met and had relations with were simply not capable of discussing in any appreciable (by my own assessment) level of detail the topics and ideas i find enjoyable. I am willing to dismiss this as long as there is an emotional connection and feelings of love and affection between us. However, I must confess that there invariably results a feeling of isolation wherein the woman I am with feels she cannot connect with me on a cognitive level.
This unfortunately has left me distanced with nearly all the women I have had relations with. I believe healthy communication to be a crucial part of a stable relationship, and so I feel I am forced to try my best to find a significant other with a cognitive comprehension level matching the sophistication and depth of communication that my brain operates upon. This has proven to be difficult...
Most Helpful Girl
You mention 'the topics and ideas I find enjoyable.' Do the past women you have dated share your interests? I find that people can talk about anything in great deal if they enjoy it, even if the other person was more knowledgeable about the subject.
I don't know many people that would not date someone just because they have 'a greater intelligence.'1
Most Helpful Guy
Start meeting girls in book stores/libraries1