Bf loves redheads and freckles.I have brown hair,no freckles great body,i'm attractive and many guys hit on me,yet I feel awful about myself and inadequate because my bf loves redheads.He doesn't tell me loves them I know because all the girls he dated in the past were redheads and I found a post on fb where he wrote he likes redheads.Why is he dating me if I'm not a redhead?I feel so awful and cry a lot because deep down I feel like he doesn't find me attractive and always worry that he'll leave me for a redhead:(((((
Most Helpful Guy
Get this out of ur mind!!
Its not like that, Its just like How at some point in life u would have hypothetically described the physical attributes of a man you will want to fall in love with..
Now I am sure all those attributes could not have been filled but do u long for it anymore?
Its does not matter at all, What u have is what u love and start to appreciate that.
Similarly maybe he preferred red heads but its not the only criteria.
You are much much better as a whole person which is why he is with you and of course I am sure he finds u attractive.
But Yeah after some time guys can forget how attractive their girl is, So occasionally u can dress to kill when you are with him outside. He would notice everybody noticing u and remember how hot u are.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Stop being insecure. He likes a color hair. Not a big deal. I love blonde guys. It doesn't mean I'm going to limit myself to just dating them. He likes you. That's all you need to know. Don't fret over something that was in the past. He's with you now. That is all that matters.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE