Fast forward to yesterday, we were supposed to hang out, but then she said "Oh my Aunt needs me I can't, so maybe another day hun." Then, later on, she says "Hey I get the feeling we have different motives... I am not looking for a BF right now, I just moved here and stuff, kinda chaotic and I am not ready to jump into that right now. You didn't do anything to me, I am just overwhelmed a little. We will still talk, I dont know about hanging out right now but maybe, we will figure it all out shortly."
I have been friendzoned, and I have been able to diagnose the how and why everytims, it is almost always my fault. This time I got nothing, no where I can see "big mistake there" or "She is showing friendzone signs here." Nothing. It's like a light switch flipped in her head and now I am friendzoned. Unless I am overreacting, this screams "Well it's not you, it is me." And actually, it screams "You are so friendzoned because u didn't meet BF material for me but I am being nice" kinda thing.
I think I played my cards well. Somehow I lost. Unless she actually does like me but is afraid to commit because of her situation.