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You have to realize that from what you're sharing he at first made it clear what he wanted was a relationship, but then changed his mind to saying he wasn't sure. Maybe that was his ideal, but he isn't in a place to truly go there right there or even really work for that. Someone who is cool with having sex with you then ignoring you is not someone you want to have. You should not have to chase a man and beg him to be a man and let you know even that he needs time to figure himself and not drag you in his confusion. Its unfair. You shouldn't have to teach a man what he should want and it may just be he doesn't want it in general and lied. I really think you should let it go and focus on what your priorities are and what you're willing to put up with and tolerate from a man and what red flags you should be looking out for... I'm sure you were careful, but a guy who says he is unsure and is "tired" of something like starting over is not the same as a guy who says he is ready for a commitment and has worked on himself and maintained himself to find the right woman to devote himself to.