or is there something else? i just read that a women wants to control a man to use his resources.
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Maybe for some women, but I'd dare to say not most.
Personally, I would be totally turned off by a man who acted like a doormat. I have no desire to control my boyfriend. I want him to treat me with respect, do fun things with me, etc because he WANTS to, not because I "make" him do things. If I want to do something he's not into, then I'll grab a friend, not make him do it. If I want to buy something, I'll go buy it, not try to make him buy it for me. It's called being a goddamned adult.1