Im an average guy. I don't attract women cause my looks aren't good enough.
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Whatever you say, mister.
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I don't think at all that it is about females or males. I think it is having to do with the persons attitude. Because I have met shallow girls and shallow guys. But I have also met guys who are not shallow and girls who are not shallow. 😊
Yeah I voted women but only because I know girls can be superficial to other girls.
Depends what it's about.
Most people are average by default and most people end up in some relationships. Neither sex has a great track record for fidelity, as humans likely aren't designed for lifelong monogamy. Putting all the blame on external forces robs you of any chance for change and disempowers yourself.
I'm sorry to say but we are. I don't discriminate with the ladies but I see other guys treat them like they have to look this and that to be attractive. No wonder they insecure. Y'all dudes can hate me for it but yeah guy are more shallow.
Guys are shallow. But women are more shallow. They put all their stock into their looks (both physically and socially). They'll lie left and right to their friends to make them "feel good", and won't think twice about it. Whereas men (at least my friends) are more likely to be honest about something even if it hurts your feelings. Men also care about how they look, but in my opinion they care more about what they want and what makes them happy about their looks rather than what other people think they should be.
For example: My girlfriend spends at least an hour and a half getting ready even though she hates going through the hassle and would rather wear sweats and a hoodie to school, but it's socially unaccepted by other girls as looking "trashy" and "sloppy" where as I spend 20 minutes (if that) to get ready and feel perfectly happy with the outcome of jeans and a teeshirt and a jacket or hoodie. If she only cared about how she feels about her appearance then she could spend about 20 to 30 minutes getting ready every morning and be happy, but she cares more about how other people view her than how she views herself.
No but seriously it's individuals not gender don't just stereotype a whole group so you don't have to actually try and differentiate decent women from aholes.
Hippos are generally pretty shallow.
Hippos are dicks.
I voted women,
however I don't mean to say that women are more shallow,
I guess both genders are as shallow as the other,
yet according to my experience and what I have read so far, women usually have way higher standards than men.
Well men can be really shallow too.. I mean really shallow.
Men obviously lol.
It's not even close
Sometimes I pride myself on being shallow. But other times I show my depth by disclosing stuff like movies I like and maybe take her to my favorite park.
Girls not even a question
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