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When guys say they acted nice, they probably were really being obsequious and sucking up. No girl respects that. When you were acting like a jerk, you probably were being cocky and confident. guys are the same way. If I act cocky with an attitude I can hook way more guys than if I play the sweet submissive nice girl.
I think people question niceness in others early on. they look down on a super nice person and don't really respect them because they think they have ulterior motives