As much as i want to have a perfectly heatlhy life partner who has an amazing toned body (chances are it will never happen ) when i do see girls the last thing i think about is how flat their stomachs are , if they look good thats good enough for me i am not looking for a model so a little fat is not important at all to me... but what about girls , do they want a flat stomach or muscles? if you have some fat around your gut and waist but fairly muscular and toned everywhere else would that bit of fat even matter anymore?
iam interested of hearing from both guys and girls.
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I prefer fit, than just skinny, if that's what you're saying.
It's unusual to be "fit", and overweight, though... so I'm a bit confused if that's what you meant.
I just expect of my partner, what I expect of myself. If he gains a few pounds or loses some, it's cool. But if I feel it becomes unhealthy though, I'll start to wonder if our relationship is going anywhere.
I guess it's because I like guys that care about taking care of their health and the body they're given. If they slip sometimes that's cool, but I don't really find consistently overweight people very attractive. ... And people that don't want to be healthy, I usually find to have issues in other areas as well. So... none of that baggage for me, thank you.