Most Helpful Guy
Sometimes it's true.
Maybe no matter what he does he feels like he's chasing a fleeting dream.
Some people don't think they deserve a certain level of happiness.
Most Helpful Girl
they are lazy. you have to acknowledge that all men are lazy and bum and you get tired of yelling at him end up prostituting to support yourself and he become a bug dwelling in your kitchen. NOthing will work. you can try to yell, teach, admonishing, understanding, give some treats, whatever. although he will become a thief and you might have to run from time to time to escape gun shots.