ok so I really like my very close friend sometimes I think she likes me and sometimes I think she doesn't but anyway I found out she's going on a date tomorrow (shes not told me yet), I really dont know what to do, I want to tell her how I feel but Im so scared of ruing the friendship, but ill go crazy if I dont tell her then she ends up getting with this guy... Can anyone tell me if theyve ever been in this situation on either end of the stick and tell me how that went? Also if I was to tell her how should I go about doing it, what should i say?
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I recently lost a friendship with a longtime best friend who didn't understand the vibes i was sending. I didn't want a relationship and thought i made it clear when i dated other guys. I was never cruel and our friendship 'endured' after months of bitterness and fighting in which i had finally had enough. To me, after recently being through the negative outcome of this, i read her actions as similar to mine, almost identical scarily enough. But she is not me and he is not you (sorry for the klingon XD) however i wouldn't recommend you saying anything ( and i do recommend you saying something so it doesn't eat away at you) until after you get an idea of how she feels about this guy. If she is into him, it is unlikely she would be open to the idea of being with you (unfortunate thing with the friendzone thing) and if its just a one off thing, who knows? All i ask is that you respect her decision and be prepared to move on for both your sakes.0
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