Most Helpful Girl
You need to take a break from your pity party and focus more on your positives. Build on and around those. Then girls will see a guy with nice eyes or cool trivia instead of someone who's always down. I'm sure you're a cool guy underneath all these dark moods!1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
You're unlikely to find a girlfriend, but that doesn't mean you'll never get one. That said, it's best to find happiness elsewhere, where you CAN control your destiny.
The best way to deal with being single is to work on projects that will make you a better man. That's how I spend my spare time (hoping to get rid of GaG soon). If you can't find happiness in bettering yourself, you're not going to be happy anywhere.
Also, if you can avoid situations where you're tempted to like a girl, that helps you stay focused. For me, I tend to get emotional after social outings where I come into contact with girls, and it takes several hours to subside. When I'm isolated and focused, things get done.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE