but i've never had a girlfriend. i actually have only had sex 3 times.. with the same girl, and im almost 22 now. i know looks aren't everything but shouldn't it be way easier for me? like I've gotten girls, but its never the girl i want. or even at a club where its all superficial, when i go up to a girl i just dont know what to say.
bottom line is, its easy for me to attract girls, i do it all the time every day, natually. BUT i just dont know what to do after that
Most Helpful Girl
Find what other qualities you have! You said it yourself that looks come natural for you, that's positive. Sex isn't everything. It's definitely not something you should be aiming to get the highest number possible. It should be meaningful bonding with someone you care a lot about.
Take the time for yourself to explore other parts of yourself, other than looks. Are you good at sports? Are you into video games? Books? Explore any hobbies you may have. Hint, through those hobbies you might find girls who you can connect with and things will come naturally.
Most Helpful Guy
Focus more on your daily success and find yourself. The right woman will come at the right time. Try to abstain from any alcohol or drugs and even environments where these are present. These things weaken your judgment and those around you. Put yourself in healthy environments where people will get to know you and see you for who you really are. If you would like, I would pray for you this evening.