I have no problem talking to people. Most of the time people tell me their entire life story within 5 minutes. I have good friendships with men and women. In general people like me and trust me.
Women ask me how many women I am dating right now. Guys try to stay around me because they think I am going to attract a lot of women. Women will come but my friends are the ones walking away with them.
In three years time I've had three dates. All of them terrible. My females friends sometimes tell me that some girl is looking at me. When I approach her even before I say anything they reject me very rudely. Last week at a party of a friend of mine I approached a woman. She wanted nothing to do with me. But a few days later I hear from her friends that she really liked me and was asking about me. I tried contacting her but she still doesn't want to talk to me. I had women come on to me, make a date with me and then flake. I tried online dating for several months now but I don't get a single reply.
I feel really bad, depressed and lonely now. Most of my female friends don't believe me. Sometimes I get told that some day I'll meet that special someone but what if she rejects me also. And I feel I deserve a normal dating life just like everybody else. I would love to meet some intelligent women and get to know them. Just as my friends are able to do.
I just don't understand it any more. I try and I try. It cannot be them. It must be something I am doing. Any thoughts would be very appreciated.