OK so my 28 year old bf is moving to savannah Georgia from pa for a better job offer. He left today and his mom is going with him to help him move in and pick out furniture. We have been going out for 4 years and I'm waiting until he gets settled and I save up more money until I move in with him. Well I got out of work early to see him off and it was his mom step dad his 21 year old brother and his 26 year old brother. Well his step dad asked me to get a picture of him with his mom and him and his brothers. Fine whatever well a couple hours later i look on fb and his step dad posted best of luck to andrew and tagged him his mom and brothers and never tagged me like hello why leave me out this effects me too I have been with him for 4 years and I was there too. Why was I left out?
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This is what happens when people get so wrapped up in Facebook/social media and take it way too seriously. You start overanalyzing the smallest (and sometimes non-existent) things which causes you to get worked up.
His family used the pic for a family moment and it being his dad, was tagging people for the purpose of showing other family. When people start feeling left out simply because they weren't tagged in some post on Facebook, you might need to dial back the importance you're giving to Facebook.
I know a ton of people like to say that they can handle it, but just look at it closely: people get tagged so others can see the pictures they're in. You weren't tagged and feel left out that other people won't see that you're included. Why does that matter if you're seen by others on there or not? Especially by his extended family that may or may not even know you to begin with.0