I met a guy fall quarter in my water polo class, and unintentionally fell for him on the last day of class. I added him over winter break on facebook and messaged him once about waterpolo, and he responded immediately. Spring quarter is here, and he's taking the class again. I try to talk to him, but don't get much out of him. In the fall, we talked a few times, but Im trying to talk to him more, but he still won't really talk to me much. He has no problem talking to the guys in the class, and talks during the games we play. Today, after class, I saw him at grad fair, and talked to him for a bit, but he still did not say much to me.
He seems like a quiet guy. But it seems like he's not putting much effort into talking to me, when he has no problem talking to the other guys in the class. He doesn't seem to talk to any of the (few) girls in our class. It seems like I'm the only girl he's talked to. I don't know if it's a gender thing or not.
Do I annoy him or something?
Most Helpful Guy
1. Maybe he is homosexual.
2. Maybe he is terribly shy with women.
3. Maybe he has a girl back home/somewhere else.
If you annoyed him, he wouldn't talk to you at all.0
Most Helpful Girl
He could be shy or slightly autistic, I don't know him so I can't say. Maybe he doesn't even like girls? But you have two options, walk away or tell him you like him and let him tell you himself how he feels about that. Good luck!0