Guys, Does it bother you when girls clean your stuff?

I've been dating this dude for a minute and I was over the other day I started picking up some trash and he said "oh god are you cleaning my room?" As if it were a bad thing! He could have been kidding but I get the vibe he was being serious because he seems to do that any time my motherly side comes out. I'm just wondering, does that bother you guys? If so is it because it's like something that makes you feel like the girl is being controlling or assuming too much importance or makes you feel "whipped"/like a child or just some of you are adverse to motherly actions? Or what?


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  • I don't know what's wrong with your boi, but I personally dig it if a girl was 'taking care' of me like that (cleaning, tidying, organizing etc.)

    I'm although i'm excellent at getting work done and everything, it's just one thing that sort of pulls me down, it's my messiness, so having my girl help out with that is a win.

    You're really sweet for doing that for your boi, but it's a pity that he isn't appreciative of your efforts.

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  • You are becoming mother instead of lover and only a very sick guy would want one woman to take on both roles.

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  • I wouldn't mind just as long as she's asks before throwing stuff away!

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  • It would bother me if she threw away my things or moved them somewhere else >:(
    Most of us guys can have a messy ass room but still know exactly where everything is. We can stick our hand in one pile of junk and pull out our keys then stick our hand in another pile of junk a pull out our wallet. When you clean up and move this around you'll probably arrange our stuff in a way that's to different and we end up not know where our shit is.
    The gesture is appreciated though :)

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  • Lol , that doesn't bother me per say. I try not to be a slob either. With some guys it seems to make them feel like they are being subliminally called piggish or nasty if someone starts cleaning up their room of area.

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  • I think it's cute when a girl wants to clean a guys stuff up
    i don't see it being a bad thing i would be grateful to have
    a woman show her acts of kindness for him.

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