June will make it 3 years that we have been together. He's about to move into a new apartment at the end of this month and asked me if I wanted to move in with him. I love him very much and vice versa, but back in February , I found out that he was talking to another woman and having relations with her. I contacted her and she told me everything that seemed to match up to what he told me. But anyway, I confronted him about it and he told me the truth about everything. A week or so later, he asked me about a promise ring and I didn't really know what the purpose of one was, so he bought up an engagement and I just told him not to rush it. He's really considering this engagement, but I know due to my trust problems that I'm not ready for that. I'm not moving in with him to keep an eye on him or anything like that, I want to move in with him because I feel like after 3 years of being together, its like the "next step" to dating.
Should I even move in with this man? or do you think it's just nervousness?
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that's too soon after seeing another girl to be thinking about an engagement. not saying you shouldn't ever, but give yourself time. Based on averages, 3 months is less than half a percent of what you'll live to, so give it time to know your situation properly1