There was always something wrong with him since he never wanted me to follow him on any social media (Instagram or fb) he said he barely used them and he didn't like the drama that came with that.
Anyway in the beggining of March he told me this girl was going to have his baby. This girl is not here, she is in another country ( where he is from) he went to visit in November and now she's expecting a baby. He said it was an old girlfriend from back in the day. At that moment I asked him what he wanted to do and he said he didn't know. (We weren't even official so I couldn't really get mad... since it also happened before me)
I started doing some stalking and found this girl. She says they are married and have been together for 9 years. On fb it says they are married. He had told me he was divorced!! I confront him and he says they aren't married. I asked him if they were together and he said no. She only thinks that and since she is having his baby he can't really says anything at this moment.
I let that go but what we have isn't the same. I don't go to his house anymore... since he doesn't invite me. I feel like if I don't bring up going out he doesn't make an effort to see me.
He introduced me as his girlfriend like 2 weeks ago... but that was a first. I still spend some weekends with him.
I asked him what it is that he wanted with me and he said he wanted everything... But he was in a position where he couldn't promise me anything since he doesn't know what is going to happen when the baby is born. It's his first kid. I told him I didn't want to just be some girl he slept with or someone he is just killing time with. He told me I wasn't. now we barely see each other and just have small text convos.