Most Helpful Girl
Define good... Different people want different things - some may be more into the emotional side of things, some focus on the physical, some on the gymnastics. I think good sex is where both people are on the same page in what they want. Something I feel is really important from a guy is his ability to take cues and be switched onto me. Other girls this really wouldn;t matter. I've been with someone who was a few years older on me. On paper he did all the right things. I'm sure some girls would have been really into him, but for me the emotional side of things is more important and having a connection. TBH I actually find that a lot of guys tend to look on sex as a set of moves to impress, theyre so busy focusing on their game I feel like a rag doll. For me I want the connection for it to be good. I've girl friends that wouldn't be a bit into that. So I don;t think its about individuals being good or bad its when two people are on the same page. Each to their own.