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I would politely turn her down and remain friends if she wanted, but I know her ego may be hurt by the situation. i would feel awkward but i wouldn't feel antipathy towards the girl herself. yes it has happened to me before, and to be honest i was 16 at the time so i reacted way more immaturely than i would in the present day and probably hurt her feelings, or at least made her feel awkward. but it's not something girls dealing with an adult male should worry about, matter of fact, they should be more inclined to ask a guy out than they are, traditional gender roles are regressive in some ways.