Not sure if he is a player because he wanted to kiss at the end of the date, I can't kiss someone who I just met for a few hours..
What is his motive?
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I would say it is better left as an after 3 dates things in general. You want time to get to know each other and get some chemistry going one on one.
That said though you can probably gather a little information on the player thing by the level of interest his friends paid you. If they remembered your name and asked a little about you then you might be the first girl he's brought around in a while. If they were jut kind of like nice to meet you and things continued with an as per usual vibe then, well he probably has a bit of a revolving door.