Most Helpful Girl
If it's one thing I've learned from my relationship-it's that people outside of the relationship know absolutely nothing about what's inside the relationship. Don't listen to this friend, you're not being controlling. If your girlfriend thinks your controlling then you are, but if it's just someone who's not even in the relationship then they have no idea what they're talking about. Tell her to get her nose out of your relationship or you'll get your nose into hers.
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds pretty ridiculous to me. Even if it was "controlling", why would making someone happy be considered a bad thing?