Instead of dinner, movie, having a picnic he has the nerve to say that I'm suppose to have this first date at his apartment. I immediately said no cause I felt it was unsafe, he got pissed off.
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Well then, it sounds like he's not the guy for you or for any woman with a sense of self respect and a brain.
If you've known one another for a long time and have been comfortable out in public, then I could see a scenario like that probably being okay. But, if you do not know this guy very well and you're uncomfortable with going to a relative stranger's apartment, then you have every right to say no and he has every right to go eat shit and pout to someone else.
The fact he got angry is a red flag in itself, so you should be happy you stood your ground and said no.0