how can a girl tell that you have fallen for her and that you just commited OR are about to commit to her without actually saying "I Love You" yet?
How can a girl tell you're sincere with her and dont use her as backup girl until someone better comes along?
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I would just tell her that I really care about her and want to make sure we are on the same page and have an exclusive relationship. I would tell her that I'm asking that to make sure we are on the same page and are an exclusive couple. That would be if I cared about her and wanted to see if we have a future and don't want to see anyone else but was not at the point of feeling in love (but can see myself falling in love with her). I show commitment, by being exclusive and paying attention to the little things (like her favorite flower, or song artist) or making a note to remember is she said she really liked something. Then I try to do thoughtful things, like getting concert tickets, or having that item she likes as a Christmas or Birthday gift, bringing her breakfast in bed.