what would disappoint you?
Most Helpful Girl
I have a VERY weak bladder. I have to go the washroom all the time. And when I have some sort of anxiety, like right before getting on a flight or a bus or immediately before some sort of exam/meeting/etc., it gets worse - I FEEL like I have to go every three minutes or something.
My boyfriend and I actually joke about it. Right before we leave a restaurant, he'll always ask, "Don't you need to use the ladies' room?"
Not gross at all. It can be funny, or endearing, if you don't play it up as some kind of disabling health condition. Just laugh it off, and s/he will, too.
Most Helpful Guy
It might test my idea of who I am and what I think is important. I hope that I would proceed with getting to know the lady and be understanding with her bladder issues. I certainly wouldn't engage in "tickle fights" (uncommon at my age, anyway,) especially if she was above me.