I don't know what is the matter with me. Everyone or at least most people tell me I'm pretty. Even if they lie I'm sure I'm above average. My fashion sense it's great and I take care of my looks, hygiene and stay on the natural side (not overdoing make up and hair etc). I do have insecurities but I don't show it. I mean I'm not shy and all. I'm great at flirting, but I don't get a chance to flirt, since I don't get approached. Although it's not like my friends get upproached and I'm just standing there. I do get looks and guys do stare at me when entering a room. But it ends there. Noone comes to talk to me. And what makes me crazy is that all the guys that have met me ( friends and others that are kind of exes) all say I'm beautifull, funny and that I'm really unique. I'm sure they tell me the truth (what they think) and that they are honest, they weren't duchbags or something. But how am I unique? I mean if I am unique why on earth do I not have my flirts? Why do I not have a boyfriend? I don't go around looking slutty or sleeping around either. It's just not my thing. But I'm not like coming out of church either. I don't know what's my problem.
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Like the other commenters said, approaching them yourself is always an option. You don't even have to show that much interest; you can strike up a casual conversation and make it look like you're just looking for someone - anyone - to talk to.
If you're not into approaching, then just make YOURSELF more approachable. You don't want to sit around wondering why these people aren't coming up to you. Move around, chat with friends, show how open you are. Smile at EVERYONE, or at least smile with your eyes. If you just notice them staring at you without smiling, they won't feel welcome to come over and initiate a conversation. Body language is key. If you walked into a room and saw two guys - one of them sitting down, sipping a drink, eyes darting around the room and making eye contact with you several times, versus this other guy who's up and about, chatting briefly with everyone, displaying great versatility and good conversation skills, looks relaxed and easy-going, grins at you when you lock eyes - of course you're going to feel more inclined to speak to that one, because you know he's going to appreciate your company more than the other guy.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE