Hi girls. This is my first post on here so I would like to ask you, what do you find most attractive in a guy? Looks, or confidence (or something else)? Cheers,
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Women are looking for the Total Package. What I might find important may not be the same as what someone else finds important. My tastes have also changed as I have gotten older.
For me, the Total Package is a balance of looks, confidence, intelligence, compassion and sense of humor. As I have gotten older I find a man's social stature ( money and power) is not important at all. When I was younger I placed a higher value on looks. Now, looks do count but not as heavily as they once did.
We are all looking for our own Total Package, but what makes this is different for every girl and can even change throughout her life as she gains life experience and catalogs her dating successes and failures.
First impression: does he make me laugh? Is he real or phony? Is he kind? Am I attracted to him? Is he intelligent?
Relationship and dating: Does he make me a priority in his life? Are we sexually compatible? Can we live with each other's flaws and shortcomings? Is there trust and respect? Am I still attracted to him if he is in sweats with bedhead and morning breath?
Not sure if this helped or confused you more!2