We've hung out and hooked up a bunch of times- we've known each other for a few months. Neither of us want anything serious and he's tried to sleep with me a few times but I resisted because I didn't want to seem easy. I genuinely am ready now and it's like he's disappearing.. I'm so confused..
Last time I saw him was last Thursday, and I inadvertently came across as needy- saying I wanted to go out and not just hook up- but I just meant I wanted to hang out as well as having fun.
Anyway I backed off a bit after that and he hadn't messaged me. I messaged yesterday and asked if he wanted to hang out- he was busy. I messaged tonight too and tried to make it more flirty, he said he was tired and going to sleep straight away.
I get that people get busy, but I just want things to be fun again because it seems like he's not keen at all.
I don't know if I'm overthinking it though because I tend to do that.
Should I give up all together? Say something to him (if so, what?), wait a few days?
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I'd say they rule for girls is if he doesn't message you first don't talk to him ( unless you are dating). In your situation you probably played hard to get for too long. He's most likely lost interest. The only thing you can do is stay friends and hope he starts liking you again.0