We've hung out and hooked up a bunch of times- we've known each other for a few months. Neither of us want anything serious and he's tried to sleep with me a few times but I resisted because I didn't want to seem easy. I genuinely am ready now and it's like he's disappearing.. I'm so confused..
Last time I saw him was last Thursday, and I inadvertently came across as needy- saying I wanted to go out and not just hook up- but I just meant I wanted to hang out as well as having fun.
Anyway I backed off a bit after that and he hadn't messaged me. I messaged yesterday and asked if he wanted to hang out- he was busy. I messaged tonight too and tried to make it more flirty, he said he was tired and going to sleep straight away.
I get that people get busy, but I just want things to be fun again because it seems like he's not keen at all.
I don't know if I'm overthinking it though because I tend to do that.
Should I give up all together? Say something to him (if so, what?), wait a few days?
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Yes, yes, everything depends on your moods. Well, it played out for you well, because judging by his actions post-refusal, looks like he just wanted to fuck.
It's cool that you don't wanna be too easy, but don't try to flip the script now and claim that you think you are "ready". Makes you look just as bad as him.
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