I have a big crush on this girl.. She clearly knows I like her.. And she told me twice she does (she told me this months back) however her actions seem hot and cold..
I already asked her out twice.. First time she said she would love to.. But not just yet.. The second time was Friday three weeks ago.. And she said she doesn't know..
I been sweet and kind to this girl.. Trying to be there for her whenever she needs me.. I show her how I really feel through words and actions.. And I be in doubt whether she likes me or not.. She teases me trying to make me jealous (with teachers.. As in uh my baby, my bar and stuff like that) and she let me hold her hand once in class... And she let me caress her back a couple of times in class.. And when I did I'd do it in an affectionate way..
However.. I feel I been putting way to much effort.. Text and calls with no answer.. And I feel my actions aren't being reciprocated.. Today I was in lunch with her.. But I ignore her, didn't looked at her and didn't spoke to her.. However with the other guys that sit at our table I would speak to them and joke around. A guy made a home about me and she tried to get in the joke.. However I didn't go along with it then she got quiet.. After lunch we always stand out side the classroom (our classrooms are next to each other) but today she went straight to her class..
I been having a crush with this girl for almost a year.. And she been knowing this since December.. I don't like to be rude, cold and give the cold shoulder.. However I don't know what to do.. Friends told me since she isn't doing anything to distance myself.. I am hurt yes, but I don't know if I should continue doing this, or if there's another aproach to distance myself without being this harsh? I feel wrong.. I really want to talk to her and all but I also need to do what's best for me.. I'm tired of being hurt and disappointed and with the anxiety of "why she didn't picked up my call? Why she wouldn't answer"
What should I do?
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She probably realised you were pissed off about the not responding to the snap chat.
Only you can decide whats best for yourself. We have never met either of you so we only see what you let us see.
I recommend to do this for one more day and see how she acts. If she acts like she did today than she was being rude to you earlier but there is always the possibility that she only wants your attention and not you.0