It never really happened. College was everything else but sex and I've been so busy with work that it never really happened. I'm embarrassed to tell him so I say that I want to take things slow.
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Just say you want to take things slow. If he asks (way down the line please - not after a week), then you can tell him if you're comfortable with it. And you don't have to explain it. If he can't handle that, then he's not for you.
I never got how being a virgin was such a horrible thing. If it's your choice, then it's your choice. Even if you haven't slept with a guy because none are interested at the moment, that means very little.
It's like drinking. People make such a huge darn issue about it. Same with being a virgin. I'm a virgin at 35; I'm kind of proud of that. Considering if I had had sex with the girls I THOUGHT were cool at one time? Who knows what diseases I'd have? - Even from the supposed "good girls."
So don't worry about it. Don't just do it to get it done and over with or because you want to be cool or whatever - do it because you love the guy; because you feel a huge amount of commitment to the guy; do it when YOU want to. Feel free when you are mature enough to handle it without it causing huge issues. Don't do it for peer pressure.