I feel like I am dating the perfect girl. She is sweet, kind, smart, talented, and just perfect in general. The problem is I am just an average looking guy with an average job. I feel like she deserves much better then me. She deserves someone who can give her whatever she wants. How do I get over this feeling?
- Maybe you don't deserve her.Vote A
- You are just overthinking this.Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
How do you know she's not looking at you seeing the most amazing guy who encapsulates everything she's ever looked for?
I think these thoughts stem from low self esteem or a low confidence level. You should try to view yourself through her eyes. She is with you because she sees a person who is worth her emotion, time and effort. You must be a lot more amazing than you give yourself credit for :)0
Most Helpful Guy
At least have plans in your mind, so that you're able to lead the courtship, let her be completely feminine so that she feels safe and comfortable with your presence. You're a guy, stop overthinking like a pussy!0