- Yes I would let him date me. I would date her.
- Sorry, but I we need to have a similar lifestyle, even if he's a great guy.
- Other, I'll explain why.
Most Helpful Girl
I wouldn't date someone I didn't consider 'good enough' for me; but I don't measure whether someone is 'good enough' based on these things. Call me an idealist, but I measure guys more by their compatibility with me, personality-wise, his compassion, honesty, kindness.. I will have to say an imbalance in cultural capital might be a challenge3
Most Helpful Guy
The way I see it, all I can do is paint an honest picture of myself. If she wants to be with me, that's her choice. I would have it be an informed one.
I'm not what you'd call wealthy - my chosen profession will likely always keep me in the middle class. In her chosen career, she will always earn more than I do. I want to help her in any way I can to achieve her dream, whether I'm to be a part of her future or not, not that I might reap the benefits, but because I love her.1