I met this girl at a breastaurant. I'm 36 and her 23. For a while, she only spoke to my friends but as time went on it turned out she only liked me b/c I wouldn't put my hands on her or flirt with her. She said she'd only hang out with them if I was there. I got to know her giving her a ride home. She told me she was done with guys her age and looking for early to mid 30's. We went bowling with 2 couples one night. I later asked her to a concert and dinner (a month out) and she said yes. A week before the concert she mentions her hometown friend is going through a divorce and needed a day away, of course the night of the concert. I was annoyed but went with it. 2 days before the show they still hadn't bought the extra ticket, saying they would get it at the door. I didn't wanna risk it so I bought it since it was only $20. The day of show I ask if they're running on time. She said no "because we're girls." I said, "I'm leaving at 6 pm for dinner and I'd leave my door open, the tix on counter, with a key. Hope to see you there." So she stops by with friend to get the tix from me directly. I felt good about this gesture but still annoyed we're not even driving in together now. They were late to dinner. 2 meatheads buy them shots and they get up to take them with them, leaving me alone at bar for 3 mins. Again, annoyed. At the show, she says she loves the music but they act uninterested. While smoking a cig she casually mentions her age limit is 27 but I look good for my age. News to me! After paying for everything so far, we go to another bar and she's flirting with another guy while texting another regular customer to meet us. They end up dancing and I leave, annoyed. She asked why via text, I said why, she said "I was just dancing". I didn't answer but saw her 4 days later. I asked her if she was gonna ignore me forever. She shook her head and said no. I said come talk outside but a friend says she said to tell you she's busy, so later but never comes over. So, WTF?
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Sounds to me like she was just using you ! She obviously didn't respect you and didn't deserve the presence of your good graces!! Close the door , throw a pad lock on it and never ever open it again! That's what happens when people date so much younger than themselves.1