I'm one of those quite and observent guys (Scorpio. . .) and I'm so shy but despite this I'm pretty good looking (Many girls have rated me 8+) and this has ruined my chances of getting a gf. I don't understand it at all, this last girl I liked was arguably one of the best looking girls in our school (and she liked me too, it was beyond obvious) but I simply couldn't overcome this fear of women to make the first move, I don't know if she still likes me though it's highly unlikely. This isn't the first time either and at this rate it won't be the last.
Anyway, how did you finally overcome this?
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I know you were looking specifically for a guy's opinion, but I thought I'd throw my two cents in here. A lot of girls would just take your shyness for indifference, thinking that, because you aren't making a move, you just don't care enough to do anything. Obviously that isn't true. At some point, I guess, you just reach a point where you realize that, if you blow this opportunity, you're never getting it back. The girl that was meant for you might walk out of your life because you were afraid. You figure out that, hey, if I get rejected, I won't die. Then you weigh the pros of making a move and you realize that making a move is worth it. Sort of something you figure out as time goes on. Good luck!0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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