I'm one of those quite and observent guys (Scorpio. . .) and I'm so shy but despite this I'm pretty good looking (Many girls have rated me 8+) and this has ruined my chances of getting a gf. I don't understand it at all, this last girl I liked was arguably one of the best looking girls in our school (and she liked me too, it was beyond obvious) but I simply couldn't overcome this fear of women to make the first move, I don't know if she still likes me though it's highly unlikely. This isn't the first time either and at this rate it won't be the last.
Anyway, how did you finally overcome this?
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I forced myself out of my shell by doing it immediately/without thought ie: cute guy standing there i just went up and said hi before I could stop myself... its so awkward at first but it gets easier with time the more people you do it to, trust me. Rejection isn't that bad, you brush yourself off trust me and soon you forget it. I mean the worst that can happen is a no? oh man, how tough.. some stranger doesn't wanna date me... she doesn't know what she's missing... and find another... simple as that :)0