I kind of understand why confidence is awesome, it's an indicator of past success, but I'm minimally rational to make decisions and judgements such as "I feel physically attracted to that woman, her confidence is stunning, but wait, confidence isn't everything, and it's not an indicator of a good personality!", but women never make these judgements. If a guy shows a little confidence (EVEN if it's fake. Sorry women, but you just can't "sense" fake confidence, you're not those superhumans you claim to be.), he has already won the battle!
I'm lucky I found an intelligent woman who is rational enough to dig deeper than physical attraction (I played the confidence trap on her), but I still maintain the same view, except for her.
And please, whatever you do, don't enter in denial or call me a arrogant douchebag or say that "not all women are like that". 99% of women always fall head over heels over confidence. And yeah, you're always strong and rational in a theoretical situation, but when pish comes to shove, you're all the same irrational, instinct-driven animals.
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Anybody who is confident all the time has a very small plate to work with if you catch my drift. Which does fit the bill for many women who have mostly air for brains. Often, not always, when you've come to the realization that life isn't just black and white... you might finally understand that you can feel confident one day, and not so confident the next. That's being real. Or you might be the type of individual that's always pushing yourself beyond your former self and so you don't necessarily appear confident because you're processing new information... which takes time to master. Doesn't mean you don't have confidence. This planet is for actors and actresses.
Charles Bukowski — 'The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts, while the stupid ones are full of confidence.'0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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