I'm 24 and my bf is 28 and we just moved from pa to game because my bf got a better job. We have been together for 4 years. We moved in 2 weeks ago and everyday since his mom calls at least once a day if not more. It drives me crazy because I feel like she isn't letting us get settled in and have our own space and privacy its driving me crazy. My mom isn't calling as much. My bf even asked me how do you like having our own place and I said well tbh it feels like your mom is living with us because she calls so much she isn't giving us room to breathe. My bf always jumps to her defense. And then we start fighting. I mean sure here and there we have fought before but not like we do now because of this. If is just frustrating because it feels like my bf isn't even seeing my pov and he is just so quick to defend mommy over listening to my feelings. How can j get him to see my POV and where I'm coming from a little better? I hate fighting like this but I feel like his mom isn't giving us room to breathe and he isn't backing me up on this.
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Boys love their mothers and she will be the love of his life for the rest of his life, you only have the position of rental. Keep trying to come between him and his mother and you will not have to deal with this problem, because you can be replaced.
If you were his wife, the situation would be different but not much. Accept that he has a strong loving realtionship with his mother. Once you pass the test you will have a guy already trained by dear old mom.
Keep fighting and one day he will choose having peace over a fight.
There are a lot of women who will turn the mom into their best friend and win the prize.0