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Coffee or lunch. Nothing major because imagine spending so much time and money for a nice dinner and you just don't click it off with that person. at least with a $12 lunch or. $3.00 cup of coffee you can leave as soon as you finish if it's just awkward. If I really like the girl I'll take her to grab a slice of pizza and a few pints see if she passes my "she's cool" test. Because even if she's boring or a horrible person "hey pizza and beer!!". The second stage is a nice $$$ dinner and cocktails. Third phase is meeting her girl friends and her guy friends befriending them find out which guy friend is interested in her and winning him over so you look like too cool of a guy for him to sabotage, buy him shots offer to take him to a ball game or camping shit like that. Wonder if in the only guy with a system like tht.